So today is my 50th birthday. Fifty. Holy shit! I’d certainly rather be 25 twice and I’m pretty sure that in my mind I’m infinitely 23…but here I am 50. So what has all this time here on earth taught me and how am I a better woman than I was at 23 or 25? If I had to break it down into just ten things, I’d have to go with the following insights.
- Life is a roller coaster Be sure to fasten your seat belt and keep your hands in the cart at all times because as sure as there’s an up, there’s going to be a down. Don’t panic, hold on tight around the sharp curves and enjoy the ride. Everything always works out in the long run.
- Choose your battles Some things just aren’t worth the drain that they cause on your energy and time. It isn’t always important to be right. Respect that everyone is different with their own set of ideas and values. That is what makes each of us special and unique.
- Don’t worry about keeping up with the Jones It doesn’t matter…In fact none of it matters. All the material things in the world won’t make you happy. Don’t compare yourself to others. Focus on your own inner happiness and you will in turn enjoy a happy life.
- Don’t forget to smile Don’t let the challenges of life get you down. A smile and a positive attitude never cease to create magic even during difficult times. Remember, “You’re never fully dressed without a smile.”
- Count your blessings Take time to be thankful for all of the things that we all take for granted so easily. Enough said.
- Follow your intuition You innately know what to do, where to go next and how to handle whatever life throws at you. Take time to pray, meditate and connect with your sources energy. It will never steer you wrong.
- Live in the moment You can’t change the past. Everything in life happens for a reason so you might as well chalk it up as a learning experience that played a key role in who you have become today. Don’t wish your life away thinking that you’ll be happy when…you finally achieve a goal or get to where you ultimately want to be. Living in the past or living for the future steals your experience in the right now. Learn to live in the now.
- Make time for yourself Learn to be okay with being alone. Love yourself as you are and fuel your passions. Do what makes you happy and brings you inner peace and joy.
- Love and family are all that matters When all is said and done, what it all really comes down to is love and family. Make love and family a priority in your life and you’ll live with no regrets. Everything else is secondary.
- Don’t ever lose your sense of humor I don’t think I would have survived all that I’ve been through to date without a sense of humor. Having the ability to laugh, not only at yourself, but at all of the crazy thing that life brings is a true talent and a gift. Finding humor in the bleakest times can turn a difficult situation into a small bump in the road.
Welcome to the club.
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I’m 52 but feel 25 mentally (not physically for sure!! ha!). Personally, I was thrilled to make it to 50 – an odd sense of accomplishment of the 1/2 century mark 🙂 …the older I get the more I realize how little I know and how much I have to learn from both young and old and keeping an open mind more than ever! Great post!
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Thank you Houston. I woke up the morning of my 50th birthday and asked myself, “Where am I at 50 and what have I learned?” The above post is what ensued when my fingers hit the keyboard.
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A year has passed,
Time to renew.
This is your day,
To redefine you.
Looking back,
At the good, the bad.
You’ll find much treasure;
Worthy to be had.
With every laugh, a memory;
Every tear, a lesson
Growth comes to us all;
Every age and season.
I wish you a Belated Blessed birthday.
May joys eternally follow.
I wish you the best day ever;
And a better one tomorrow.
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Thank you! That is really beautiful and well written! I really appreciate the birthday blessing and the time it took for you to post that…makes a girl feel special!
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Happy Birthday(hope I ain’t late)!!! And it’s awesome how everyone learns the same things about life
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Thank you and thanks for visiting my blog!
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Happy Birthday. Wishing you much health and laughter for the year ahead.
Also, this is an awesome post to commemorate the milestone.
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Thank you Sarina! Much appreciated!
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Happy Birthday. So young with dental problems. I had seven or right dental implants and countless filling, repeated fractures, but I hardly paid my dental friend., for there’s no more income after retirement.
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That would be Cristian with the dental work.This post is from blog called, My Life I Swear, by Erin Cooper Reed. Stop by and check it out.
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Sorry
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No worries. I don’t think it says reblog on the post. Not your fault.
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Happy Birthday! It’s a great decade to be sure!
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Awww, thanks! Let’s hope so!
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Happy birthday! I really enjoyed this, I’m not at 50 but this is definitely valuable advice on my life journey. Number 6 really resonated with me.
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Thank you! I really appreciate that!
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Happy birthday. :O)
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Thank you Tony!
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You’re welcome my friend.
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Hey, a BIG Happy Birthday to you! Thank you for sharing, your post put a big smile on my face 🙂
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Awww, thank you! Beautiful face to put a smile on!
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Reblogged this on Daily Miracles and commented:
I love this… Very refreshing
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Thank you! That’s nice to hear!
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Great post! And Happy Birthday!!!
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Thank you so much!
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Reblogged this on thomascannonblog and commented:
Great list. Is there a way for 23 year olds to learn this?
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Thank you! Lol! I think you just did!
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Happy birthday,and thank you for your tips. I think the people too seriously live life.Without smile,without positive energy, burdened with irrelevant issues,but life is journey not destination. Thank you
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Life is an adventure and a learning experience. Embrace it! Thank you for your comment!
Erin Cooper Reed
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